This is a universal question, although most men will argue that it is women who are more complex and thus the other question which is also a movie that Mel Gibson stared in being more common. But really, what do you guys want?
The book Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus clarifies on a few things but doesn’t make it crystal clear. Men can really have issues and are very different from us.
He asks, ‘What do you want?’
When you do tell him, he trips that you are too demanding or you are giving too many details and at the end of the day, you are asking yourself, do you want me or just image of your dream woman? All docile and very blond, a yes woman all the time to your liking. At that point, I am thinking, why did you bloody ask if you don’t want to know!
For them, they have a different set of rules and then for us, and they change according to their liking. When he cheats – it’s in their genes. When she cheats – she’s a whore. W.T.F.
The first a guy I dated at uni was a serious bad boy, I like them like that. The thing is, I told him that I wouldn’t sleep with him if we dated because I wanted to wait till I got married, asked him if he was cool with that and if he would handle it. He confidently said that he would. 6 weeks into our relationship and he was like,
‘Honey please. I want you so so so bad, please!’
I was dumbfounded. Wouldn’t hold it against him for all that coz it would obviously happen when we were making out.
This book (His Needs, Her Needs) which is a Christian’s guidebook for marriage kind of cleared it all up for me. Dr. Harley explains the husband’s needs starting with the most important and numero uno was sexual fulfillment.
That actually surprised me, but clears a lot of questions.
Gentlemen, it would be good to hear from you, so don’t be shy. Tell us, what do you want?
